Hormonal changes are one of nature\u2019s wise designs. They send you into such a hormonal frenzy that you start creating space for yourself with little outbursts. Where has that kind, caring, self-sacrificing creature gone? Say goodbye to her and allow yourself to be a normal human being with the full range of emotions and needs. Are you difficult? What normal human being isn\u2019t?<\/p>\n\n\nH2 OMG, I\u2019m not cute!\n\n\n
Free yourself from the obligation to be easy to get on with. Don\u2019t let anyone tell you that you\u2019re difficult just because you\u2019ve stopped being predictable. Welcome to emotional chaos. Emotions are a wonderful thing, even when they\u2019re unsettling. They make you feel alive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Anger is an appropriate reaction for someone whose needs and boundaries are not respected. We are entitled to feel it. When we\u2019re under hormonal pressure, we suddenly become aware of our boundaries. Have you ever, in that state, said something you\u2019d been holding back for ages? Very good! Perhaps sometimes it\u2019s better to be true and genuine rather than just trying to please.<\/p>\n\n\nH2 Three steps to finding your bearings\n\n\n
These three steps can help you find a sense of direction when something real and repressed is trying to rise to the surface from deep within:<\/p>\n\n\nH3 1. Give yourself the right to change\n\n\n
Even if you don\u2019t get much understanding: this is about you now. You\u2019re not obliged to stay the way others have got used to you being. Anyone who shies away from the risk of change is taking the greatest risk of all.<\/p>\n\n\nH3 2. Ask yourself: \u201eWho could I be?\u201c\n\n\n
Suppose you weren\u2019t obliged to carry on with your old life \u2013 who could you be? Every person has countless qualities lying dormant within them. What is it that wants to come out of you right now?<\/p>\n\n\nH3 3. Accept your needs, even if you don\u2019t understand them\n\n\n
At times like this, aspects of yourself that you\u2019re not familiar with come to the fore. Perhaps they\u2019re childlike needs that you feel ashamed of. Just don\u2019t censor yourself: anything goes. What could you do to fulfil this need?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Treat yourself to this bit of mischief. You don\u2019t always have to be a little doll. I wonder if our souls would feel less of a need to rebel if our willingness to be there for others were valued rather than taken for granted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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But only maybe. What do I know? I'll be nice again and try to look as harmless as possible...<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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