{"id":1909,"date":"2019-02-26T09:26:27","date_gmt":"2019-02-26T08:26:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chi-statt-botox.com\/?p=1909"},"modified":"2026-09-02T14:44:11","modified_gmt":"2026-09-02T12:44:11","slug":"jede-frau-sollte-ihre-eigene-geschichte-schreiben","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chi-statt-botox.com\/en\/jede-frau-sollte-ihre-eigene-geschichte-schreiben\/","title":{"rendered":"Every woman should write her own story"},"content":{"rendered":"

Women are born extras in the film of other people's lives. For centuries, we were just the sidecar of the man, the children, the boss. A well-functioning household and care robot with a long-lasting battery that didn't need to be recharged.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Today we have the chance to play the lead role, and what do we do? We settle for a supporting role. After all, moving from an extra to a supporting role is a step up. But just because we\u2019re always busy doesn\u2019t mean we\u2019re doing anything of real substance. Far too many women still shy away from what really matters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Never good enough for the next step<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

We always feel that we are not yet good enough for the leading role. So we set out on a journey of self-discovery and self-development, in the hope of finding ourselves. Of recognising our path. To find our strength. And when we succeed, we shy away. When the door to our cage opens, we\u2019re only too happy to slam it shut again ourselves. \u201eI can\u2019t, because\u2026\u201c is one of the phrases I hear most often in my practice. We\u2019re still afraid of our own strength.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Freedom is an inner attitude<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Does a person automatically become free simply because they are granted freedom? Unfortunately not. Freedom is a skill, a talent, something that happens within us and has only a marginal connection with external circumstances. In theory, we are free to write our own story, to play the leading role in our own lives. This appeals to us, sparks our imagination \u2013 and at the same time, it frightens us and paralyses us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The chip with the antediluvian programme<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Somewhere deep inside us, there seems to be a chip that has been regularly updated since we were born \u2013 by sexist advertising, ridiculous portrayals of women in the media and outdated politics. Stored on this chip is the history of centuries of women\u2019s oppression. If a woman manages to overcome her fear, the question inevitably arises: \u201eAm I allowed to do this?\u201c We often feel as though we are taking something away from someone else when we claim our space.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The stuff women's fears are made of<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

In my work, I meet many women who keep themselves trapped in a cage that, in reality, has long since ceased to exist. Here are a few examples of how we hold ourselves back:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Andrea, Verena and Lisa<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Andrea gives up her yoga teacher training because her husband isn\u2019t keen on the idea. Verena remains stuck in a lifeless marriage for fear that people might think she\u2019s mad if she breaks free. Lisa agrees to an open relationship, which she actually disapproves of, and wonders why SHE isn\u2019t more flexible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\"Frauenrollen\"
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Anna, Gertrud and Iris<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Anna plays the part of the career lawyer, even though she actually longs for a large family but feels ashamed of this. Gertrud loses touch with herself in order to please her husband. Iris has been stuck in a state of indecision for three years because she worries about what others might say if her self-employment venture were to fail.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Always remain reasonable<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Women often believe it is noble to take a back seat. In reality, they are depriving the world of their energy. We all keep an eye on those around us and strive to remain \u201ereasonable\u201c. Day after day, vast amounts of originality and colour are lost in this way. Our daughters and granddaughters watch us doing this and learn what it means to be a woman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\"Authentizit\u00e4t\"
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Every woman should have her own story. I don\u2019t want to be a role model of self-sacrifice for either my daughter or my son. Nobody should think that a woman has to sacrifice her own path for love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We are the midwives of our dreams<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Only we women can begin to take our inner voice seriously. We must grant ourselves the right to forge our own path. The fence has been torn down; the cage is gone. Freedom beckons, and it is full of untold stories.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

One of them is yours. Show us which one it is!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\"Freiheit
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Frauen sind geborene Statistinnen im Lebensfilm der anderen. 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